Desperation? Or... Something?
I'm going to talk about teenage life nowaydays, guys particularly. I'm not saying that all teenagers are the same, but most of them are being so desperate. I called them 'Dumbasses'. I'm going to associate this story with relationships.
Teenagers nowadays wanted something in a blink of an eye. They're not even put efforts to something what they want. They're just take a shortcut to make something happens so fast. This is really occurs in some of relationships. Based on my experiences, SOME of guys usually do this, and it define them how dumbasses they're. It's really annoyed me anyway. No offense.
Why I'm saying like that? It's because I met a guy who's desperate about something. We're just knew each other an about 2 or 3 weeks I guess. I assumed him as a common friend. Not even more than that. For the first time I knew him, I felt like there was something not right about him, so I just let it flows naturally and being ordinary. He was being bragged and said "I'm a funny guy, I know girls like funny guy!" "You know that somebody could easily fall inlove to a funny guy". Oh please do you need to say that? Dude if you want to impress girls out, you have to SHOW it, not BRAG about it. We all do believe in actions more than a big talk. Obiviously. So I just said "Proves it. I believe in actions. I'm not a idiotic who's believe in just a talk. Duhh". Then... It's nothing to be proved about. Bro, you messed with a wrong girl. I'm not a girl who's easily fall on to sweety words. Sorry for being honest. You can try to other girls who are desperately need you with your tricks maybe? No offense.
Why you need to force yourself in a short time to know someone well? I called it 'forcing the situations'. Obviously, it shows you how damn desperate you are. Why don't you just take a longcut to know someone well? Even it takes long time to make it happens, but it's WORTHFUL or worthwhile in the other word. Plus, a person loves seeing someone make a lot of efforts solely to be close with that person. Well I do! In the meantime, you'll having some experiences with the person, sharing problems, sharing interests, having fun together and so on. And from that, you'll be close to that person day by day. It's kinda awesome when you think about it. That's how you want to be close with someone.
Please don't be desperate or take a shortcut or forcing a situation to make something happens in a blink of an eye. It's a annoying thing. Plus it's not fun and not even feels romantic anyway. Enjoy every moment in your life. You don't have to be rushing. Chill out bro pfft :) For those who want to be in a relationship so much, you guys need to learn more. Search on Google is the easiest way or you can asks for someone advices. So yeah, goodluck anyway!